While running recently, I was thinking about the marathons I did in my younger years. I completed 5 marathons - each one was its own unique experience. Looking back at my marathon experience, I realized the following is true (for me).
I signed up for each race. Nobody forced me to do a race. In fact, I paid money to do the race.
I didn't know what I was doing when I started. I did some research, talked to some people, and then started and learned as I went along.
During the training and each race, there were times I was questioning why I chose to do something like this. I could have easily quit, but I didn't.
I had many cheerleaders along the way - friends, family, and fans along the route.
Most people have good intentions when offering others encouragement. In the 2009 Des Moines Marathon, a woman was standing at mile 18 with a megaphone cheering people on. It was great, as I could hear her for a mile away. She was very encouraging, but would then say, "You're almost there!". Lady, there are 8.2 miles remaining. We're not almost there, but I appreciate her being there cheering us on.
The races were super challenging. Again, I was wondering why I chose to do this, but I kept pressing on.
After finishing the race, exhaustion and elation set in. A sense of accomplishment and support from my friends and family were amazing. Yeah, maybe I'll do another one!
When I think about these things, I realize it correlates to many things in life. Sometimes we choose to do things, while other times we're chosen to take on a challenge. It's good to ask for help, but in the end, it's up to each of us to do the work, put in the miles, and run the race. It's rarely easy, but often the reward is worth it.
Remember the power within you. It will always be there for you when you need it.